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The Apps your Children don’t tell you about: Uncovering your Child’s Secret Life

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More commonly in private investigative work we receive questions about “hacking” or “cloning” devices. The majority of these requests come from parents desperate for a look into their children’s life. Most parents do not have the ability or the knowledge to find the hidden tricks our Gen-Z children come up with. This generation of children are brilliant in technology, but sneaky and parents who grew up being told “Come home before sunset” or “Go play outside” aren’t always particularly weary of most of what goes on in their own child’s phone. Most kids nowadays are sewn with an Iphone or Ipad at birth.

Most parents are at a disadvantage not having full access to their kids’ devices 24/7. Teenagers usually use their devices anywhere else, but in front of you. By the time you ask to see their phone they have deleted chat room apps, dating apps, social media, private photo album apps, and to a parents worst nightmare explicit photos of their child. In our line of work it is incredibly difficult to inform a parent that their child may currently be a victim of an online child predator. We want to use our platform as an agency being open for almost 20 years to help you save your child from the trauma and dangerous path this secret life can create.

4 tips for finding deleted apps or secret photos on your child’s Iphone

  1. First, go to your child’s device and view their app store application. Next, click on the personal icon on the top right corner. Then, click on “Purchased”. You will be able to see any apps that have been downloaded through their Apple ID on any device that Apple ID is logged into. You will also be able to see when the app was downloaded to know how recent it was deleted.
  2. Apps such as KeepSafe are known as a secret photo vault. They can store photos here and lock them in albums with a passcode. Apps like these can also have a camouflage of calculators on them. It is to deter parents or unwanted users from clicking on the application. Note this for your search into your child’s phone.
  3. Some parents have access to their childs Instagram. If you do Click settings, then security, finally download data. Once you do this you can enter your personal email and have a copy of all the data on that account. Any messages they may have “deleted” before you took their phone will be included. Instagram stores every single message in their data collection and provides files with each instagram user’s message thread.
  4. This one is for the parents who don’t have the first clue about passwords on their child’s phone or even their own. Apple saves all passwords through a setting called keychain. More than likely the child has saved all their passwords attached to fake email addresses that you can now have access to.

What You Need to Find Out Before Deciding to Forgive a Cheating Spouse

CHEATING SPOUSE INVESTIGATOR: QUESTIONS TO ASK A CHEATING SPOUSE AND YOURSELF BEFORE FORGIVING THEM

 

So you’ve hired a cheating spouse investigator, and you’ve discovered that your significant other is cheating. This news can be devastating. Why did he or she cheat? How do you go on from there? Do you stay with the cheater or leave? Will you ever trust your significant other again? Do you forgive a cheater, and if you do, how will your relationship change? These are just some of the questions that may pop into your head. However, before you make a decision on what to do, there are some questions you should ask your loved one, as well as yourself, to help determine your next step and begin the recovery process.

 

Questions to Ask Your Cheating Spouse

  1. Are You Still Seeing the Other Person?

If your loved one cheated on you with someone in their workplace, it may be difficult for them to completely avoid that coworker. However, the question here is whether the cheating spouse is choosing to still see this person when it’s not necessary. If they are still seeing each other, it means the cheater continues to betray you, and you should probably leave.

 

  1. Are You in Love with Him/ Her?

This can be a difficult question for both you and the cheating spouse. He or she may not even be sure of the answer, and so getting an honest answer may be difficult. For you, hearing the answer, “yes” could deal a devastating blow, and it may be time to move on after that answer.

 

  1. How did this Happen? Is Something Missing in our Relationship?

Finding out what led them astray could help when you are trying to decide whether to forgive your loved one and stay, or move on. If something is missing in your relationship, is he or she willing to do whatever it takes to work on it?

 

  1. Do You Want Us to Work this Out?

Some spouses purposefully cheat in order to get caught and get out of a relationship. Find out if the cheater intends to leave or wants to work this out. You may also want to find out if the cheater feels guilt or remorse. However, that can be a tricky question to ask, because that’s an easy lie for the cheater to tell. You would probably have to feel that the loved one is remorseful, regardless of the answer.

 

  1. What if this Happens Again?

This is where your loved one needs to convince you what steps he or she is going to take to ensure this doesn’t happen again. Apologies are nice, but if he or she just keeps begging for your trust without some kind of solid plan, that should be a warning sign for you.

 

Questions to Ask Yourself

  1. Does He or She Deserve to be Forgiven?

If you found out they were cheating because of evidence obtained from a cheating spouse investigator, chances are your spouse did not confess until he or she was caught. There is a lot to be said about a person’s morals if that individual never came forth with the information, and if you forgive him or her now, how do you know it won’t happen again?

 

  1. Did this Come as a Shock, or am I Not Surprised?

Are you still in love with the cheater, or had the relationship already run its course? You’d really need to evaluate the relationship.

 

  1. Has He or She Been Deceitful Before?

Perhaps this may be the first time he or she was cheating, but there could have been red flags throughout the relationship. Is your spouse generally an honest person, or has your spouse displayed dishonest behavior before?

  1. Can I Deal With This and Stay?

Do you still want to be with your spouse? Does the good outweigh the bad? Even if the good does outweigh the bad, one case of infidelity can really mess up the relationship. Are you willing to make things work? Is this something you can forgive, or will you forever be throwing it back in his or her face?

 

There is no right or wrong answer when going through these questions. It is a very personal process. The only person you should have to justify your answers to is yourself, even if friends and family disagree.

 

Miami Cheating Spouse Investigator

Do you suspect that your spouse is cheating but need to prove it for sure? Maya and Maya offer a wide range of private investigation services, including cheating spouse investigations. Our operatives have 10 years experience in both domestic and civil investigations, and always keep our client’s best interest at the heart of their investigations. Contact us today for a free consultation.